Reboot your intimacy in just 3 weeks!
A simple, faith-centered mini course for Christian married couples.
Build a stronger foundation of intimacy - emotional, spiritual & sexual - so you and your spouse can feel seen, safe, & connected in every area of your marriage.
LIMITED TIME PRICE $49 $149
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You’re a Christian couple who deeply wants your marriage to thrive, not just survive.
You want a marriage that feels safe, close, and intimate in every way - where you can communicate openly, stay emotionally connected, and enjoy intimacy that reflects God’s design.
You long to feel seen and understood by your spouse, to share your needs without fear of conflict, and to know you’re truly on the same page.
But maybe no one ever showed you what a healthy foundation actually looks like.
You’ve tried to figure it out on your own, but it feels like:
You’re stubborn by nature and keep clashing instead of truly listening.
Conversations about sex or emotions end in misunderstanding (or silence).
Life feels too busy, leaving you with “leftovers” for your marriage.
Expectations weigh you down and you wonder if it’s always going to feel this hard.
You’re so ready to feel close again - emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. To talk without the walls, to feel wanted without pressure, and to rebuild that spark you had at the beginning.
And, you tick one of two boxes:
👉 Engaged or Newlywed Couples
You’re excited to start marriage well, but no one really showed you what a healthy foundation looks like.
You don’t want to stumble through years of trial-and-error, miscommunication, or mismatched expectations.
You want clarity, tools, and a shared vision so you can build the kind of marriage you both dreamed of - right from the start.
👉 Married Couples
You love your spouse, but life is busy, and sometimes marriage feels more like “roommates” than lovers.
You’ve tried to talk, but it feels like you’re going in circles - either misunderstood, dismissed, or clashing over the same issues.
Deep down, you just want to feel close again… to laugh together, pray together, and enjoy intimacy without pressure or awkwardness.
The truth is, intimacy doesn't fix itself.
If you keep avoiding the hard conversations, you’ll only grow more used to living separate lives.
If differences in sexual desire keep going unspoken, resentment builds - one of you feels pressured, the other feels unwanted.
If you believe “this is just how marriage is after kids/work/ministry,” you stop fighting for connection, and your marriage drifts into survival mode.
And here’s the danger most couples don’t see until it’s already happened:
When emotional connection keeps taking a backseat to kids, ministry, and work, you slowly forget how to simply enjoy each other’s company.
When you go too long without feeling chosen, wanted, and understood by your spouse…
You stop sharing the little things.
You stop reaching out first.
You stop believing things can change.
You still love each other - but you’re no longer building the kind of marriage you dreamed of on your wedding day.
And over time, this gap only gets wider.
But it doesn't have to be this way.
Because the real secret to building lasting intimacy isn’t:
Waiting for things to get better on their own,
Avoiding the hard conversations because “it’ll only make things worse",
Hoping busyness will slow down enough for you to finally connect.
You can feel truly known, wanted, and safe with each other again - without it being awkward, forced, or “just another thing” on your to-do list.
Imagine sitting down with your spouse and actually enjoying the conversation… no more spirals into misunderstanding, shutdowns, or tiptoeing around each other’s feelings.
Imagine intimacy that feels good and fulfilling for both of you - even if your drives aren’t exactly the same…
Imagine actually looking forward to time together, because you know you’ll walk away feeling closer, lighter, and more connected - not further apart.
And here's the best part: you don’t need to overhaul your whole marriage, read another 300-page marriage book, or book an expensive weekend retreat just to get here.
There’s a different way - one that’s simpler, faster, and actually doable - right in the middle of real life.
When you have the right framework to reconnect emotionally, spiritually, and physically....
You stop feeling like “married roommates”.
And you start feeling like what you were always meant to be: partners, lovers, and best friends.
That’s exactly what I’m going to show you how to do…
Introducing
THE INTIMACY REBOOT
The simple, practical, faith-centered framework for couples who want to build a stronger foundation of intimacy - emotional, spiritual, and sexual - so you can feel seen, safe, and connected in every area of your marriage, in just 3 weeks.
My Mission: To Help You Build a Stronger Foundation of Intimacy in Your Marriage
The truth is, intimacy doesn’t just happen - it’s built.
And the best way to build it isn’t with more pressure or unrealistic expectations, but with a framework that’s practical, biblical, and actually doable in the middle of real life.
That’s what The Intimacy Reboot does.
It gives you short, intentional lessons, reflection tools, and conversation prompts that take you from stuck and disconnected
→ to safe, close, and aligned.
In just 3 intentional lessons, you’ll discover how to:
✅Understand and express your sexual differences - so you both feel heard and respected, even if your drives don’t match.
✅ Create emotional safety - so conversations about intimacy bring you closer instead of pushing you apart.
✅ Reconnect as partners, lovers, and friends - so you can enjoy deeper intimacy in every part of your marriage.
You’ll get:
3 On-Demand Video Lessons (learn together or on your own schedule)
Practical Conversation Starters (no more “uh… where do we start?” moments)
Printable Tools & Checklists (turn insight into real change right away)
PLUS Bonuses to Fast-Track Your Progress:
The Emotional Intimacy Checklist - a quick, go-to tool to see if you’re building or blocking connection.
The Intimacy Clarity Map - a guided reflection to uncover what’s holding you back.
The 6-Intimacies Fast-Track - simple prompts to grow closer in every area, starting this week)
Validation Cheat Sheet - so your spouse truly feels heard and understood.
12 Heart-to-Heart Conversation Starters - move past small talk into meaningful connection.
The Monthly Sex Check-In - create safety and spark without pressure
The Deeper Connection Decoder - discover the emotional needs beneath your physical intimacy
Hey, I'm Renee
I’m a Christian sexologist, counsellor, and speaker who’s spent over 20 years in ministry alongside my husband - while also navigating the very real highs and lows of marriage myself.
Over the years, I’ve walked with countless Christian couples who love God and love each other deeply… yet still feel stuck when it comes to emotional closeness and intimacy.
I get it. Because I've been there too.
I went into marriage thinking intimacy was about meeting my husband’s needs, and I didn’t realize I was allowed to have needs too. No one showed me how to talk about desire, navigate differences, or build intimacy that felt natural instead of forced.
Fast forward to today and my passion is helping couples experience intimacy as God designed it - safe, connected, and joy-filled.
I bring together biblical truth, real-life marriage experience, and evidence-based tools to help couples move past awkwardness, unspoken frustrations, and surface-level fixes - so they can create the kind of closeness they’ve been craving.
Enter The Intimacy Reboot.
What You’ll Learn in This Mini-Course:
Whether you’re just starting out in marriage and want to set the right foundation or you're years into marriage and feeling the distance at times, this mini-course will help you rebuild the foundation of intimacy you’ve been longing for.
👉 Build a stronger foundation of intimacy in your marriage (emotional, spiritual, and sexual) so you can feel seen, safe, and connected in every area of your marriage - in just 3 weeks.
The goal? To swap feeling like “married roommates,” stuck in misunderstandings, mismatched desire, and busyness for a marriage where you feel truly known, wanted, and aligned as partners, lovers, and best friends.
The vehicle? 3 self-paced video lessons (with handouts, tools, and conversation prompts) that walk you step by step through how to:
Talk about intimacy without awkwardness or pressure.
Create emotional and spiritual safety so you can open up and actually enjoy each other’s company again.
Reconnect in ways that make intimacy life-giving, God-honoring, and sustainable in the middle of real life.
What's Inside The Intimacy Reboot?
The Intimacy Reboot is a self-paced, faith-based program to help Christian married couples build a stronger foundation of intimacy in their marriage so they can feel seen, safe, and connected in every area of their marriage, in just 3 lessons.
Lesson One -
Created For Intimacy
🎥 Video Training
Discover God's vision for intimacy in marriage.
Identify steps to deeper closeness.
Lesson Two - Emotional & Spiritual Intimacy
🎥 Video Training
Learn how to build trust and safety through emotional intimacy.
Gain tools to listen, connect and grow closer.
Lesson Three - Healthy Godly Sexual Connection
🎥 Video Training
Discover how to build a safe and connected sex life.
Learn to talk about desires and boundaries with care and trust.
WHAT YOU GET
This Course Includes:
3 Lessons - Each lesson has pre-recorded thought-provoking video lessons designed to help you and your spouse build a stronger foundation of intimacy in every area - emotional, spiritual, and sexual - so you can feel closer, communicate better, and enjoy a God-honoring connection in marriage.
Accompanying Course Handouts
The Weekly Marriage Reset
The Emotional & Spiritual Intimacy Toolkit
This or that: Intimacy Edition
[BONUS RESOURCES]
The Intimacy Clarity Map
The 6-Intimacies Fast-Track
Validation Cheat Sheet
12 Heart-to-Heart Conversation Starters
The Monthly Sex Check-In
The Deeper Connection Decoder
Crystal Clear Clarity - On building emotional safety, growing spiritually, and creating a healthy, God-honoring sexual foundation in your marriage.
The Details
A self-paced education mini-course designed to help you and your spouse build a strong, lasting foundation of intimacy.
3 short, practical lessons (with handouts) to keep you moving forward without overwhelm.
Tools to help you communicate openly, connect emotionally and spiritually, and enjoy a healthy, God-honoring sexual relationship.
Perfect for Christian couples in safe, loving relationships - whether you’re engaged, newly married, or years into marriage - who want to create deeper closeness without shame or pressure.
Ongoing access to the course for as long as the course is offered & all future updates - so you can revisit them anytime your marriage needs a reset or refresh.
The BEST PART?
You can go through this together in the comfort of your own home, privately, and at your own pace. No awkward group sessions. No added pressure. Just practical, biblical guidance that fits into your real life.
This isn’t just another marriage resource - it’s a clear and simple path to more connection, safety, and joy in your marriage.
So now, you have two choices:
❌ Keep circling the same frustrations - misunderstandings, mismatched desires, and waiting for life to magically slow down.
✅ Or take this step together today - learn how to connect emotionally, spiritually, and physically, and start building the kind of marriage you’ve both been longing for.
WHO IS THE INTIMACY REBOOT FOR?
The Intimacy Reboot is for you if…
You're a Christian Married Couple
in a safe and supportive marriage...
Who values your marriage and wants it to thrive - not just survive.
You love your spouse deeply, but lately emotional connection, intimacy, or understanding each other’s needs feels harder than it should.
You’ve tried talking it through… but it too often ends in misunderstandings, shutdowns, or the same old cycle.
You feel stuck in patterns - whether it’s emotional distance, mismatched desire, or just feeling like “married roommates” - and your READY for a way forward that’s practical, faith-aligned, and realistic for your season of life.
And, you’re willing to take intentional steps (even small ones) to make your marriage feel safe, connected, and joyful again.
If you’ve been longing for more emotional safety, deeper intimacy, and mutual understanding - without awkward scripts, all-consuming programs, or costly retreats - Intimacy Reboot is your next step.
IMPORTANT NOTE: This is a self-paced education program.
This is not a counselling service, a therapy program or a substitute for therapy. Please read the disclaimers in the Course T&C's here carefully.
This is NOT for you if:
You are in a relationship that is abusive, controlling, or unsafe
You are facing significant mental health challenges that would be better supported with personalized therapeutic support
You are seeking trauma recovery or healing from past abuse (this requires more individualized support).
You are in need of one-on-one counseling, therapy, or specialized interventions, this program may not be the right fit for you.
You are seeking tailored, individualized interventions.
The Intimacy Reboot
Course Price
$49
Is This Right for Me?
If you’ve been wondering, “Okay, but will this actually work for us?” - here’s the truth:
This mini-course is right for you if…
You’re married, love your spouse, but feel like your connection isn’t as strong, safe, or intimate as you want it to be.
You keep bumping into the same frustrations - mismatched sexual desire, misunderstandings during conversations, or drifting apart in busy seasons - and you’re ready for a simple, doable way to address them.
You’ve tried advice from books, blogs, or even well-meaning friends, but it hasn’t made a lasting difference.
You want something faith-aligned that actually RESPECTS your values and works in real life (yes, even with kids, ministry, or hectic schedules).
You’re WILLING to take small, intentional steps now to see big shifts over time.
If that sounds like you, then yes - this is for you.
If you want to keep avoiding hard conversations, ignoring intimacy issues, or just hoping things “get better with time”… then no, this probably isn’t the right fit.
FAQs
We’re busy parents. Will we even have time for this?
Yes! This course is self-paced. Each lesson is short and to the point (think 30 minutes) and can be done at your own pace. You can fit it into a coffee break, commute, while you're out walking or driving or after the kids are in bed. Small, consistent steps lead to big changes.
Is this only about sex?
No. While sex is part of it, this course addresses emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. You’ll discover how to communicate better, navigate desire differences, and rebuild closeness in all areas of your marriage.
We're in church ministry - will this align with our faith?
100%. Every part of this course is biblically grounded, values-driven, and designed for Christian couples who want to honour God and cultivate a thriving marriage.
Do you have a Refund Policy?
No refunds will be provided. Please ensure you are fully committed before signing up. If you have questions, email [email protected]
How long do I have access to the course?
You’ll have access to the course for as long as the course is offered, and I don't intend on not offering it.
Your marriage won’t change by waiting - take the step today to feel close, seen, and connected again.
One short, faith-aligned insight delivered weekly - real talk about intimacy, sex, connection, & communication that actually helps.
We’re rewriting what intimacy looks like in Christian relationships. Backed by truth, research, and a whole lot of grace.
Because great relationships don’t just happen. They’re built 'one honest conversation at a time.
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